tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748983905966397259.post5532082300681574948..comments2023-10-11T08:41:21.581-07:00Comments on Lady Jane's Transformation: Starting to Freak OutLady Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02601946075186829258noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748983905966397259.post-49180534021291149832010-11-16T22:41:50.273-08:002010-11-16T22:41:50.273-08:00Jane...
Just Stop, and THINK. Get off the Hormone...Jane...<br /><br />Just Stop, and THINK. Get off the Hormones. Talk to your wife. Talk to your children Talk to your doctor. Think long and hard about what you are doing. Read THIS...<br /><br />http://www.mtftransition.com/t-girl.htm<br /><br />ALL OF IT! AND THINK ABOUT WHAT IT SAYS<br /><br />Then read this...<br /><br />http://ai.eecs.umich.edu/people/conway/TS/Warning.html<br /><br />AN THINK SOME MORE...There ARE alternatives. Find them.<br /><br />AnneAnnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02696670919817140802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748983905966397259.post-8088790710293428702010-08-26T06:41:19.582-07:002010-08-26T06:41:19.582-07:00Jane-
I wish I had some advice for you. Your situa...Jane-<br />I wish I had some advice for you. Your situation is so much more complicated than mine and you're so much farther along than I. <br />There's no easy way through this maze but we're here for you--and while I can't offer you any advice similar to that which you've offered me-I'm glad you're sharing your feelings and doubts. Doubts are part of the process & the only way to understand how significant they really are is to express them and see them in the light of day. <br />I'm so glad you're connecting with your ex & that she's supportive--and maybe she'll be a bridge to reaching understanding with your children. <br /><br />Keep talking-we're listening.<br />xoxo<br />gwenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748983905966397259.post-7952696168601943262010-08-25T12:20:58.408-07:002010-08-25T12:20:58.408-07:00*hugs* girl.
We all go through this, I believe.
...*hugs* girl.<br /><br />We all go through this, I believe.<br /><br />I know I did. Before I made the choice to transition, I wrestled with all that it would mean. I had similar feelings, feeling good about being myself and yet feeling bad, because of all the loss that would incur. It was like 2 different people fighting for life. <br /><br />I had friends from church telling me that one was the devil and the other was the holy spirit....telling me NOT to transition.<br /><br />I never agreed. It felt like both voices/feelings were from inside me. I tend to think that the side of me that was afraid was basing everything on the 28 years I had of being male...that was the standard, that was the easy route, with no loss....except of myself. But what life is worth living if you can't be yourself? That's the conclusion I came to.<br /><br />I knew I could possibly lose everything and everyone around me but I had to take that chance, so I could be real, so I could be me. <br /><br />*hugs*, just know you are not alone and it is good to be feeling these feelings and pondering options.<br /><br /><3 JericaDebrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06752910753527115712noreply@blogger.com